Comments on: Are You Avoiding Me?

By: RayS

RayS — Sat, 01 Feb 2014 20:39:55 +0000

Great article for the most part. However, your opening comment, which is also one of your final thoughts, is a little off. It sounds smart, it sounds like common sense, it’s cute… But a person who has been busy or ill is not avoiding you in the common use of the word. It is true, they may be keeping themselves from seeing you. Keeping themselves away is technically avoidance, but it is really self-centered to make everything about you. Getting a text asking, “Are you avoiding me” from a friend I haven’t seen in two weeks due to being ill or incredibly busy always comes across as, “I’m so self-centered that my not seeing you two weekends in a row is all about me. I’m the only thing that matters in your world.” This question makes me want to begin avoiding you.

By: Jovan

Jovan — Mon, 19 Aug 2013 12:26:00 +0000

I am going through the same thing, it’s hard but sometimes you have to give the other person some space to breathe when he or she realizes what they are doing they will come around again!

By: lucy

lucy — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 05:38:03 +0000

this was right on! I’v recently experienced this.He acted like everything was fine,he’s just been busy.SO I took him off my social network.WHen he didn’t call all day,I blocked his phone number.I took my control back.BTW:I think it’s either another women,or he’s back on heavy drugs

By: Soumya

Soumya — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 07:48:54 +0000

awesome…

By: Nithi

Nithi — Sat, 02 Oct 2010 20:06:52 +0000

Excellent article…