But what a learning experience; what I learned about me, and as a consequence, about her. As she revealed certain characteristics about who she was, wow, I judged her immediately and not in a favorable light! Been doing that my whole life, truth be told.

But here is why I say this program is the single best personal development course I’ve ever taken. What a great learning experience, recalling when Bob intimated that anyone can just ignore differences they have with other people, rather than judge them or let those differences be a friendship breaker. That’s some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten.

In this “getting encounter” with this woman, I learned that I automatically go to judgment, in a negative way, because some people — probably most people! — think differently than I do. That’s what I did with this poor woman. My judgment didn’t do her any good; and it didn’t do me any good. What good was it? None whatsoever.

I was able to correct my judgmental thinking, and as Bob suggests, just ignore the differences. Who cares? Which is what I did.
What a liberating experience.

And you know what?
I liked this woman more as a result. Whereas before, I would have (very negatively) written her off as a loser, or a weirdo or whatever, because she thought quite differently from me. And if I like her more, chances are she’ll like me more — that’s what this program is all about.

One more wow: when I ignored all I saw in her that I judged as negative, all I could see was the good in her. What a wonderful wow. That’s the only way to see anyone, without a doubt.

Thank you for a fantastic program, a life changer.