30 Day Likeability Challenge – Lesson 3

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What did you learn from our last lesson? Did you tell the people you liked, that you liked them? If so, please tell the community what happened in the comment section below. What did you learn from your experience?

Today’s Lesson

We like people who are like us.

Your challenge over the next 48 hours is to make an effort to quickly find common ground with the people you meet and report back on the results.


  • By jim, February 18, 2010 @ 6:03 am

    Hi Bob in lesson two I learned that my computer is not working properly…(because I never got it!)….I have looked in my spam folder and everywhere else…it’s not anywhere to be found! but anyway Bob…I like you! great course, regards Jim T.

  • By Jerome Kellner, February 18, 2010 @ 9:03 am

    This is the best online video course I’ve experienced.
    And I’ve experienced an enormous number of them, presented by the biggest names out there.
    This one’s information, delivery, practicality, brevity and every other aspect is superior to all of them.
    What a pleasure and treasure. Thank you.

  • By Carolyn Hewitt, February 24, 2010 @ 1:38 pm

    Hi Bob,

    I am very excited about my course in likability!

    Interestingly, I have utilized this principle before. When I feel like I especially like someone, usually someone of the same sex, I tell them.

    I told my former husband this in the last couple of days in response to this exercise and it produced in me the same feelings that it usually does. I felt warm, a little vulnerable, and truthful.

    Looking back on other incidences, I would say it genuinely causes even more mutuality than was there before.


  • By April Harris, March 26, 2011 @ 1:03 pm

    Good evening, Likable Community! I completed the lesson. When I told the three individuals that I liked them I received the following responses:

    1st ~ Wow! Thanks, nah, really? Oh, I do my best. Hey, April by the way could you please tell my wife that?

    2nd ~ Smiled then blushed

    3rd ~ Smiled, he dropped his head, didn’t say a word and started down the hallway.

    I felt pleasant and “springy” after I told them.

  • By Sathya Prabhu, February 9, 2013 @ 12:33 pm

    Hi Bob,
    This is a nice course. I told my friend that after kissing him and saying I like you he was melted.
    It works.

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